a word to the wise

clevohardcore - 12-30-2008 at 09:19 AM

When your wife is being a bitch and you call her a bitch. She will through your baseball mitt at you.

Dave - 12-30-2008 at 10:35 AM

your lucky it wasnt a bat

XHonusWagnerX - 12-30-2008 at 10:38 AM

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your lucky it wasnt a bat

or your balls :tumble:

Lucabrasi - 12-30-2008 at 05:36 PM

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your lucky it wasnt a bat

or your balls :tumble:

haha, He hasn't had them in so long he wouldn't be expecting that.

clevohardcore - 12-30-2008 at 05:55 PM

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Originally posted by Dave
your lucky it wasnt a bat

or your balls :tumble:

haha, He hasn't had them in so long he wouldn't be expecting that.

^^^^^^^^^ Hey you son of a bitch.......O wait. He's right. :umm:

upyerbum - 12-30-2008 at 06:19 PM

When my wife's uncle got married his Father-in-law gave him two walnuts in a mason jar. :shocked2:

XnMeX - 12-30-2008 at 07:20 PM

Word to the wise, when you want kids and your fiance that you have been with for almost 7 years doesn't... It kinda puts an end to the relationship. This may have happened this past saturday.

ShawnRefuse - 12-30-2008 at 07:24 PM

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Word to the wise, when you want kids and your fiance that you have been with for almost 7 years doesn't... It kinda puts an end to the relationship. This may have happened this past saturday.

Sad but true. Hope things work out for you.

XnMeX - 12-30-2008 at 10:26 PM

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Sad but true. Hope things work out for you.

Thanks, taking it step by step. We have been sharing a vehicl ethat is hers so I have to rush and find a car (just found one but I still need to come up with $400.00 to buy it so I am selling some shit). Happy New Year! lol

clevohardcore - 12-30-2008 at 10:28 PM

Look at it this way my friend. At least she isn't compromising her desire to not have a child simply because you want one. It's much better when you both are on board rahter than one of you. Simply for the child. Both parents must by happy for it to even work.

XnMeX - 12-30-2008 at 10:41 PM

Oh indeed. I agree 100% Just puts me in a really shitty financial situation.

clevohardcore - 12-31-2008 at 12:42 AM

right on. Things will workout for the best.

Dave - 12-31-2008 at 12:52 AM

shit sorry to hear about that.

Furly - 12-31-2008 at 01:38 AM

Oh that sucks Monty. I've been in a simular situation, but fortunatly from the begining I knew what I wanted, he knew what he. We gave it a shot anyway thinking maybe one of us would change our minds, neither did. What sucked is how perfect everything else was in the relationship. That's life........... eventually we move on.

Enyo - 12-31-2008 at 09:22 AM

We went through the same thing (kind of). When we got together we were just kids fucking around, but after 2-3 years we were really serious. I want children. He doesn't. Our compromise is to foster parent. It gives me to opportunity to nurture without taking on a lifetime commitment for him. The problem is that as we have grown together, I get more like him and he gets more like me. If you would have asked me 5 years ago the only thing I wanted in the world was to be pregnant, and now I can't stand the idea. and he...
well, he is the one who is dragging me to the baby section of any store we go to.

but XnmeX- I know how hard that is. There were many many times we almost lost it because of this issue. I hope things work out for you soon. Good luck with the car!

BDx13 - 12-31-2008 at 03:16 PM

first off, clevo's post and the first few responses are hilarious.

monty, wow. i can't imagine. if you don't mind me asking... is this something that came up suddenly? or have you always known one another's opinions on the topic and are just now getting to a point where you feel 'ready' and she absolutely does not?

XnMeX - 12-31-2008 at 07:30 PM

Well.....

When we got together back in 2002 we both thought we would have a kid by 2006. We both wanted kids then she slowly started thinking she didn't. Then I kinda went along with it and said I don't know if I want kids. Then there was some stuff that went thru my mind that made me realise that eventually I want kids (seeing my friends with there kids, cleaning off my dads grave, other stuff). I told her in august that I want kids and explained why. She said no, she doesn't want them and we broke up for 2 days. She called me and said she hads to get tires it pep boys and other shit and it took 4 hours and wshe kept seeing kids all day, families in and out, etc and it made her think that yes, she does want kids but in like 5 years (which is what I was saying to her, having kids 5 or so years from now) and so I flat out asked if she was 100% on that and that I didn't want to go another few years as I am getting older and have her change her mind. She stated she was sure and we got back together. Times were "good" from then on but the connection seemed kinda gone and fadded as the weeks went on till this saturday she told me that she doesn't want kids and appologized for "wasting my time".

We are still cool with eachother right now, actually LIVING with each other right now which has me stressed and not sleeping much but comunication wise we are good. I am pretty sure she is moving out this weekend and then life goes on.

Sorry for hijacking your thread Clevo, I was thinking of posting a thread but your post just set me up

DaveMoral - 1-1-2009 at 12:29 AM

Sucks bro.

She may come around yet though. Women are fickle creatures, and biological clocks and maternal instincts and all... powerful forces are they, powerful forces.

morgan - 1-1-2009 at 12:44 AM

Fuck man... sorry to here it.

XnMeX - 1-1-2009 at 11:49 AM

She went to her parents (which she is moving back with them) from this morning (thursday) till sunday and then she is coming back for work realted stuff on monday. She has not told me when she plans to be out of here 100% and I can't sleep well at all while she is here. I want it done and over with in a civil manner.

I am curently going thru the appartment and packing all her stuff (she took some stuff with her already) so when she comes back, she'll be all set and I can load up her car for her.

BDx13 - 1-1-2009 at 12:00 PM

seven years.
man, this can't be easy.
sorry you're starting the new year out on this foot.
hopefully it will work out for the best for both of you.
sounds like you're both being very fair an realistic about it, so you may even remain close.

if you don't mind me asking (again), how old are you both?

clevohardcore - 1-1-2009 at 01:12 PM

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Well.....

When we got together back in 2002 we both thought we would have a kid by 2006. We both wanted kids then she slowly started thinking she didn't. Then I kinda went along with it and said I don't know if I want kids. Then there was some stuff that went thru my mind that made me realise that eventually I want kids (seeing my friends with there kids, cleaning off my dads grave, other stuff). I told her in august that I want kids and explained why. She said no, she doesn't want them and we broke up for 2 days. She called me and said she hads to get tires it pep boys and other shit and it took 4 hours and wshe kept seeing kids all day, families in and out, etc and it made her think that yes, she does want kids but in like 5 years (which is what I was saying to her, having kids 5 or so years from now) and so I flat out asked if she was 100% on that and that I didn't want to go another few years as I am getting older and have her change her mind. She stated she was sure and we got back together. Times were "good" from then on but the connection seemed kinda gone and fadded as the weeks went on till this saturday she told me that she doesn't want kids and appologized for "wasting my time".

We are still cool with eachother right now, actually LIVING with each other right now which has me stressed and not sleeping much but comunication wise we are good. I am pretty sure she is moving out this weekend and then life goes on.

Sorry for hijacking your thread Clevo, I was thinking of posting a thread but your post just set me up

^^^^^^^^ Dude don't let this thought cross your mind. We're here to communicate bro. Its all good. Just glad to see a thread have some life thats all. Even better when it sparked a new discussion that somehwhat relates. Just sorry that you are going through this. It will work itself out. Everyone gets confused. The idea of kids should not be the focus though. See what else it is that is really making her confused. It may very well be something else. Like money, security or something else all together.

XnMeX - 1-1-2009 at 03:10 PM

Yeah, there are other things and the connection defiently feels quite lost between us.

I'm 28 and she is 24. I am sure her mind has changed a bit since she was 17 when we started going out.

BTW, I wasn't scouting for 17 years olds before you ask

A mutual friend hooked us up.

XHonusWagnerX - 1-1-2009 at 05:57 PM

I'm sorry that I havent chimed in on this until now... I didnt really check this thread for some reason and I had no idea what was going on. I only found out yesterday when I saw that NME was selling his PS3 and Wii and I asked what was up.

The whole thing sucks and I hope that it all works out for the best no matter what the final outcome is. Just know that the whole board is here for you to sound off to and I'm only a couple of hours away so if you need something let me know. If you guys didnt do the podcast on a Wednesday I would try and come up for that, but its tough with work.

take care....

XHonusWagnerX - 1-1-2009 at 05:58 PM

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Yeah, there are other things and the connection defiently feels quite lost between us.

and for the sake of keeping things light...

its your love for scat porn thats causing an issue isnt it?

Voodoobillyman - 1-1-2009 at 07:01 PM

Sorry to hear this Monty, I hope things work out for you bro

clevohardcore - 1-1-2009 at 07:35 PM

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Yeah, there are other things and the connection defiently feels quite lost between us.

and for the sake of keeping things light...

its your love for scat porn thats causing an issue isnt it?

^^^^^^^ I thought maybe she felt he should just keep glass bottles out his ass. :spin:

XnMeX - 1-1-2009 at 11:11 PM

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Yeah, there are other things and the connection defiently feels quite lost between us.

and for the sake of keeping things light...

its your love for scat porn thats causing an issue isnt it?

^^^^^^^ I thought maybe she felt he should just keep glass bottles out his ass. :spin:

Indeed! She was sick of having picles for breakfast, lunch, and dinner to satisfy my "lust" for busting jars in my ass. You got me! :wow: