Have you ever hooked up with someone you met online?

BDx13 - 10-3-2005 at 08:52 AM

these days, meeting someone online isn't that big of a deal. whereas dating services seemed pretty cheesy or desperate in the 80s and most of the 90s, these days i don't have one 'single' friend that isn't on nerve, jdate, eharmony or match.

but what about trolling aol, myspace or craigslist for someone to hook up with? i know a few people that do this, too.

what about you? have you ever had a relationship, however long, with someone you met online?
i haven't been single in a long time, so i never had any of these technologies at my disposal!

ENDERA.x - 10-3-2005 at 08:58 AM

I did once/ But it didn't last long.

but I honestly don't think it's the way to go... maybe I dating service is fine... but I'm not really about it.

All the girls I would like to meet live to far because Toronto is SHIT.

There is an abundance of people on these sites that are just as useful as tits on a bull. And there are many women that are afraid to even meet someone, alone at least, that they have met online, I mean it makes sense, theres tons of creeps, but you know, I have tons of them coming to me and saying I'm hot and oh how they wanna meet me and so they add me to msn or aim, and what happens, they never do, so I get sick of offering. It's retarded. Unfortunetly, there are no women into hardcore that are exactly, available, there are none for MILES here. And since most people cannot handle what they don't understand, loud heavy music and a culture that scares them, both, hardcore and sadistic hiphop I'm into. It makes my pickings a lil slim.

If was into Rich bitches like at my university, and Club bitches, I'd probably be set, but I can't handle them, I'm not catering to anybody that much. and I stress the word "bitches" used for many of those types of women.

serenity - 10-3-2005 at 10:55 AM

too many times. i actually got one into the sack, which is a pretty big accomplishment for me. unfortunately, she was ignorant, stupid, zero sense of intellect and whiny although she a had a good life.

although, i would much rather prefer a chick which wasnt in to hardcore. hardcoregirls tend to be pretty un-intellectual. i like my women smart.

Voodoobillyman - 10-3-2005 at 11:07 AM

I met my old lady the old fashioned way, face to face on a blind date fixed up by a mutual friend, and we are going on three years married with a three month old little girl, who is everything to me. I have a friend who met someone online and they are now going on three years married as well.........once in awhile I think it goes right, they both got lucky. They wed win the courthouse and went to GWAR for their reception, it was pretty cool

XnMeX - 10-3-2005 at 12:04 PM

I have, and I've been with her for almost 3 1/2 years now

It wasn't a stab in the dark though. I had a friend (a flesh and blood one, not online) that messaged me and said "There's this girl I talk to online and she's single. I think you would dig her cuz I know ya like em' hefty!" (btw, my friend is a shallow piece of shit, but he was right.... I DO indeed like em "hefty")

tireironsaint - 10-3-2005 at 06:07 PM

I met a girl on here, meaning the Thorp boards, and ended up being in a long distance relationship with her for just under a year. I never, and I mean NEVER thought I would meet anybody that way, let alone actually get involved seriously due to something like that, but I was online between 8 and 14 hours a day at the time, so maybe it's no surprise. Before anybody says anything, realize that I was working a job that required me to sit in front of a computer all day and we were free to do whatever we wanted online during that time, so no, Im not QUITE as big a loser as those hours make me sound. Anyway, she's a great girl and I wish her the best, but I hope to whatever god there may be that I never get involved in another relationship like that again. Long distance shit sucks so much.

For those of you old school Thorpsters, she approached me after reading some of my rants on the old boards, so that should tell you what kinda girl she was/is.

JawnDiablo - 10-3-2005 at 06:28 PM

might go and nail me a myspacer this week....

BDx13 - 10-3-2005 at 06:41 PM

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Originally posted by tireironsaint
For those of you old school Thorpsters, she approached me after reading some of my rants on the old boards, so that should tell you what kinda girl she was/is.

Me thinks it also tells us WHICH girl it was!

SAAAAARS - 10-3-2005 at 08:05 PM

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Originally posted by serenity
hardcoregirls tend to be pretty un-intellectual. i like my women smart.

this could apply to girls outside of hardcore just as much as girls into hardcore, though

SAAAAARS - 10-3-2005 at 08:07 PM

i think the only time i ever really talk to someone from the internet is when they're a friend of a friend/know someone i know.

Discipline - 10-3-2005 at 08:09 PM

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Originally posted by SAAAAARS
i think the only time i ever really talk to someone from the internet is when they're a friend of a friend/know someone i know.

What about all our special time together?????

tireironsaint - 10-3-2005 at 09:15 PM

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Originally posted by BIG DUANE

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Originally posted by tireironsaint
For those of you old school Thorpsters, she approached me after reading some of my rants on the old boards, so that should tell you what kinda girl she was/is.

Me thinks it also tells us WHICH girl it was!

Yeah, well, she ain't here anymore, so I ain't saying anything. But I'm sure you know who it was anyway....

BDx13 - 10-3-2005 at 09:32 PM

I'm sure you two made a zesty couple. And i take great pride in knowing that the Thorp Board is where you met. That's a first!

anyone else have a relationship that started here?

bystanderfanzine.com - 10-3-2005 at 11:22 PM

A few... One I met in real life before the whole deal, but we didn't get along or really talk. It wasn't until I laid the online smoothness on her that she took a bus 2 hours just to spend the night with me (and clean my apt).

I dated a girl from the Trustkill board... that ended badly. Nice person, we both had issues.

I randomly hooked up with a girl via friendster, she was a cute grad student from RPI. Last time i talked to her she was taking a job around here for like 90,000 a year.

Then there was a Milf who was 5 years older then me...

After my last break up there were a couple offers that I didn't expect, I swear B9 board is more about hook ups then hardcore.

moron - 10-3-2005 at 11:38 PM

I have a friend who ended up marrying someone he met via the internet.

RomanticViolence - 10-4-2005 at 01:08 AM

I have never hooked up with anyone over the internet. I've made some good friends with the people on the thorp board though!.

serenity - 10-4-2005 at 12:50 PM

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Originally posted by SAAAAARS

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Originally posted by serenity
hardcoregirls tend to be pretty un-intellectual. i like my women smart.

this could apply to girls outside of hardcore just as much as girls into hardcore, though

of course, but in my experiences havent been all that good with hardcoregirls though.

moron - 10-4-2005 at 06:36 PM

Ive met plenty of people via the internet, and most have been very cool. As for chicks, I met a few several years ago and I had some interesting experiences. I dated this one chick for a month. A month to the day she told me she wasnt interested in me anymore. Stupid me dated her again maybe 4 years later and the same fucking thing happened, but the second time she didnt tell me she wasnt interested anymore she just stopped returning my phone calls. I truly was a moron when it came to her. I went on one or two dates with other chicks, and it never went anywhere because one chick was a bit aggressive when I completely wasnt into her and the other I was into but she wasnt into me. This all happened back in my freshman year of college. After that I stopped meeting chicks over the internet.

Six66Mike - 10-5-2005 at 12:28 AM

I'm old fashioned and mine started on mIRC haha. There wasn't even Friendster when I started going online and the latest version of Internet Explorer was 4.x or some shit maybe even 3.x. Met a few fine ladies in the same small chat room and now many years later I am married to one of them and living in Australia.
Started chatting seriously in like 1998/99 and phone calls/letters followed and kept serious, came here to meet in 2003 then she came to Canada to meet the family last year and now we're here & married with a kid due in March/April.

tireironsaint - 10-5-2005 at 12:44 AM

Congrats on the kid-to-be, cap'n!

It's weird to think of all the shit (both good and bad) I've read about some of you guys goin through on here in the time I've been here.