Originally posted by GabeTexasGAMC
just me randomly rambling.
So yeah...
As most of you know, i separated from my wife, back in Oct/Nov or so.
It was a VERY rough time for me. I pretty much didnt see anyone for a couple of months, didnt go out unless it was to work, ect.
My life was fucked. So i got over it little by little.
Work picked up, i found myself getting busy, doing conventions, and stuff.
Then i started to go out, mix and mingle with people. met a couple of really cool girls, wasnt looking for anything, just chilling.
I keep up with the ex, she tells me how we were just roomates longer than we were married.
I agreed, we sucked as spouses.
So about 2 weeks ago, I meet a girl.
Now thing is, i usually wouldnt even give it two thoughts, but this girl seemed to be NOT my type, and one of the most awesome people ive ever met.
So the first thing i say is "im not looking for a girlfriend, im not looking for anything but fun and friends"
She held me to it.
then after a couple of weeks, it started getting really comfortable.
Too comfortable.
She ended up being 90% awesome as hell, and 10% kinda ok/almost shitty. Somthing that most people can live with.
I think i deliberately sabotaged it myself, subconsciously....
She stood me up a couple of times, went out to drink with her friends.. Somthign i think is cool as hell.
But for some reason, this time i found the way she stood me up to be a little selfish.
All my friends were just super taken by her, "She awesome, dont fuck it u p!", "Shes too hot for you!" whatever. hahaha
But she forgot to meet me, because she was with a lesbo. On a bike! She ended up showing up at my house at 5am, kinda drunk and all up in my face
about me acting weird.
It hurt just a little too much, something i wasnt looking to feel.
So we stopped talking, in a super uncomfortable way.
She works at my favorite local bar too, so that sucks even worse.
so this happened a couple of days ago...
So here I am thinking im over it. Fuck it right. Some random bitch, eh!
Nope. She just messages me.
And i feel like shit all over again, considering how awesome she was.
Fucking A dudes, I dont want to have to feel like this again. Even if it just a super tiny version of what I just went through.
Its like a thorn in the huge almost healed scar thats still there.
AAAAAAAH! Im drinkin... Just trying to relax, all the boys are away, so im venting. |