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clevohardcore
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a word to the wise
When your wife is being a bitch and you call her a bitch. She will through your baseball mitt at you.
Each aspect of the soul has it's own part to play, but the ideal is harmonious agreement with reason and control.
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Dave
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your lucky it wasnt a bat
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XHonusWagnerX
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Dave
your lucky it wasnt a bat |
or your balls 
| Quote: | Originally posted by REV.PAULIE
HONUS-as much as i can't stand a great deal of what you really like (for my own reasons that i would never hold,nor impose,against you),YOU FUCKING
RULE!
YOU,HONUS,IS WHAT MAKES THE "EDGE" COOL.
YOUR FRIEND,
PAULIE |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by XHonusWagnerX
| Quote: | Originally posted by Dave
your lucky it wasnt a bat |
or your balls |
haha, He hasn't had them in so long he wouldn't be expecting that. 
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clevohardcore
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Lucabrasi
| Quote: | Originally posted by XHonusWagnerX
| Quote: | Originally posted by Dave
your lucky it wasnt a bat |
or your balls |
haha, He hasn't had them in so long he wouldn't be expecting that.
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^^^^^^^^^ Hey you son of a bitch.......O wait. He's right. 
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When my wife's uncle got married his Father-in-law gave him two walnuts in a mason jar. 
Well, its this place where nobody works, and the pigs don\'t give you any shit. Everyone smokes weed and gets drunk all day. Its a place where
cunts like me and you can truly take it easy and relax. Know what I mean?
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XnMeX
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Word to the wise, when you want kids and your fiance that you have been with for almost 7 years doesn't... It kinda puts an end to the relationship.
This may have happened this past saturday.
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| Quote: | Originally posted by XnMeX
Word to the wise, when you want kids and your fiance that you have been with for almost 7 years doesn't... It kinda puts an end to the relationship.
This may have happened this past saturday. |
Sad but true. Hope things work out for you.
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| Quote: | Originally posted by ShawnRefuse
| Quote: | Originally posted by XnMeX
Word to the wise, when you want kids and your fiance that you have been with for almost 7 years doesn't... It kinda puts an end to the relationship.
This may have happened this past saturday. |
Sad but true. Hope things work out for you. |
Thanks, taking it step by step. We have been sharing a vehicl ethat is hers so I have to rush and find a car (just found one but I still need to come
up with $400.00 to buy it so I am selling some shit). Happy New Year! lol
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clevohardcore
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Look at it this way my friend. At least she isn't compromising her desire to not have a child simply because you want one. It's much better when you
both are on board rahter than one of you. Simply for the child. Both parents must by happy for it to even work.
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XnMeX
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Oh indeed. I agree 100% Just puts me in a really shitty financial situation.
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clevohardcore
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right on. Things will workout for the best.
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shit sorry to hear about that.
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Oh that sucks Monty. I've been in a simular situation, but fortunatly from the begining I knew what I wanted, he knew what he. We gave it a shot
anyway thinking maybe one of us would change our minds, neither did. What sucked is how perfect everything else was in the relationship. That's
life........... eventually we move on.
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We went through the same thing (kind of). When we got together we were just kids fucking around, but after 2-3 years we were really serious. I want
children. He doesn't. Our compromise is to foster parent. It gives me to opportunity to nurture without taking on a lifetime commitment for him. The
problem is that as we have grown together, I get more like him and he gets more like me. If you would have asked me 5 years ago the only thing I
wanted in the world was to be pregnant, and now I can't stand the idea. and he...
well, he is the one who is dragging me to the baby section of any store we go to.
but XnmeX- I know how hard that is. There were many many times we almost lost it because of this issue. I hope things work out for you soon. Good
luck with the car!
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first off, clevo's post and the first few responses are hilarious.
monty, wow. i can't imagine. if you don't mind me asking... is this something that came up suddenly? or have you always known one another's
opinions on the topic and are just now getting to a point where you feel 'ready' and she absolutely does not?
If I fail math, there goes my chance at a good job and a happy life full of hard work.
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XnMeX
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Well.....
When we got together back in 2002 we both thought we would have a kid by 2006. We both wanted kids then she slowly started thinking she didn't. Then
I kinda went along with it and said I don't know if I want kids. Then there was some stuff that went thru my mind that made me realise that
eventually I want kids (seeing my friends with there kids, cleaning off my dads grave, other stuff). I told her in august that I want kids and
explained why. She said no, she doesn't want them and we broke up for 2 days. She called me and said she hads to get tires it pep boys and other
shit and it took 4 hours and wshe kept seeing kids all day, families in and out, etc and it made her think that yes, she does want kids but in like 5
years (which is what I was saying to her, having kids 5 or so years from now) and so I flat out asked if she was 100% on that and that I didn't want
to go another few years as I am getting older and have her change her mind. She stated she was sure and we got back together. Times were "good" from
then on but the connection seemed kinda gone and fadded as the weeks went on till this saturday she told me that she doesn't want kids and appologized
for "wasting my time".
We are still cool with eachother right now, actually LIVING with each other right now which has me stressed and not sleeping much but comunication
wise we are good. I am pretty sure she is moving out this weekend and then life goes on.
Sorry for hijacking your thread Clevo, I was thinking of posting a thread but your post just set me up
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Sucks bro.
She may come around yet though. Women are fickle creatures, and biological clocks and maternal instincts and all... powerful forces are they, powerful
forces.
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Fuck man... sorry to here it.
Support the arts, shoot a rapper.
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XnMeX
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She went to her parents (which she is moving back with them) from this morning (thursday) till sunday and then she is coming back for work realted
stuff on monday. She has not told me when she plans to be out of here 100% and I can't sleep well at all while she is here. I want it done and over
with in a civil manner.
I am curently going thru the appartment and packing all her stuff (she took some stuff with her already) so when she comes back, she'll be all set and
I can load up her car for her.
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seven years.
man, this can't be easy.
sorry you're starting the new year out on this foot.
hopefully it will work out for the best for both of you.
sounds like you're both being very fair an realistic about it, so you may even remain close.
if you don't mind me asking (again), how old are you both?
If I fail math, there goes my chance at a good job and a happy life full of hard work.
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clevohardcore
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| Quote: | Originally posted by XnMeX
Well.....
When we got together back in 2002 we both thought we would have a kid by 2006. We both wanted kids then she slowly started thinking she didn't. Then
I kinda went along with it and said I don't know if I want kids. Then there was some stuff that went thru my mind that made me realise that
eventually I want kids (seeing my friends with there kids, cleaning off my dads grave, other stuff). I told her in august that I want kids and
explained why. She said no, she doesn't want them and we broke up for 2 days. She called me and said she hads to get tires it pep boys and other
shit and it took 4 hours and wshe kept seeing kids all day, families in and out, etc and it made her think that yes, she does want kids but in like 5
years (which is what I was saying to her, having kids 5 or so years from now) and so I flat out asked if she was 100% on that and that I didn't want
to go another few years as I am getting older and have her change her mind. She stated she was sure and we got back together. Times were "good" from
then on but the connection seemed kinda gone and fadded as the weeks went on till this saturday she told me that she doesn't want kids and appologized
for "wasting my time".
We are still cool with eachother right now, actually LIVING with each other right now which has me stressed and not sleeping much but comunication
wise we are good. I am pretty sure she is moving out this weekend and then life goes on.
Sorry for hijacking your thread Clevo, I was thinking of posting a thread but your post just set me up |
^^^^^^^^ Dude don't let this thought cross your mind. We're here to communicate bro. Its all good. Just glad to see a thread have some life thats all.
Even better when it sparked a new discussion that somehwhat relates. Just sorry that you are going through this. It will work itself out. Everyone
gets confused. The idea of kids should not be the focus though. See what else it is that is really making her confused. It may very well be something
else. Like money, security or something else all together.
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Yeah, there are other things and the connection defiently feels quite lost between us.
I'm 28 and she is 24. I am sure her mind has changed a bit since she was 17 when we started going out.
BTW, I wasn't scouting for 17 years olds before you ask A mutual friend hooked
us up.
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XHonusWagnerX
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I'm sorry that I havent chimed in on this until now... I didnt really check this thread for some reason and I had no idea what was going on. I only
found out yesterday when I saw that NME was selling his PS3 and Wii and I asked what was up.
The whole thing sucks and I hope that it all works out for the best no matter what the final outcome is. Just know that the whole board is here for
you to sound off to and I'm only a couple of hours away so if you need something let me know. If you guys didnt do the podcast on a Wednesday I would
try and come up for that, but its tough with work.
take care....
| Quote: | Originally posted by REV.PAULIE
HONUS-as much as i can't stand a great deal of what you really like (for my own reasons that i would never hold,nor impose,against you),YOU FUCKING
RULE!
YOU,HONUS,IS WHAT MAKES THE "EDGE" COOL.
YOUR FRIEND,
PAULIE |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by XnMeX
Yeah, there are other things and the connection defiently feels quite lost between us.
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and for the sake of keeping things light...
its your love for scat porn thats causing an issue isnt it?
| Quote: | Originally posted by REV.PAULIE
HONUS-as much as i can't stand a great deal of what you really like (for my own reasons that i would never hold,nor impose,against you),YOU FUCKING
RULE!
YOU,HONUS,IS WHAT MAKES THE "EDGE" COOL.
YOUR FRIEND,
PAULIE |
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