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[*] posted on 11-19-2009 at 11:23 PM
In honor of Paul's sister, Sandi-Marie Cacciatore


It's been one hell of a year for Paul and his family. His father, Edmund, passed away this summer and on Wednesday morning, Sandi-Marie, Paul’s sister and mother to three children, died in her sleep.

This might sound corny, but we felt that offering a little support during this difficult time to someone who has given us so much over the past 25 years was the least we could do. Whether ya love him for the music he's made or hate him for verbally lambasting you in a public forum, there are few in this scene that can say they haven't been affected by the Rev.

Thorp and I first discussed the idea last night and after we heard from a few people today asking if there was anything they could do, we reached out to Paul.

thanks...the wake is going to be on Sunday at Scamardella Funeral Home,in Staten Island...if people want to donate to Autism Speaks or Lupus.org in her name,that would be very much appreciated..Sandi-Marie Cacciatore...
thank you for caring.
- Paul



SO...

If you’d like to post something, this original thread is full of messages of condolences:
http://thorprecords.com/boards/viewthread.php?tid=15253

If you would like to make a donation in Sandi-Marie's name to Autism Speaks, click here:
http://events.autismspeaks.org/memorial

To make a donation in her name to The Lupus Foundation, click here:
http://donate.lupus.org/site/Donation2?idb=0&df_id=1180&1180...

We are also considering sending flowers to the funeral. If you would like to contribute, please send me a U2U message by 5pm Eastern on Friday letting me know how much you would like to contribute and I'll get back to you with a PayPal address. We get enough people in, I'll order the biggest damn bouquet they have. (Most flower places don't deliver on Sunday, so we'll order Friday for Saturday delivery.)





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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 07:24 AM


You guys are the best interweb fucks,ever...you just made me cry in a friggin' good way....

MetalMulisha - it's on in a few weeks!! Challenging you to another internerd throwdown,guy!!

Honestly,thank you all for being so fucking cool...Aside from my blood,and my brotherhood - you guys have become another family,to me...It don't matter if I never met some of you,or ever will...You've put up with my interweb excursions,called me out when you didn't agree,or just been cool as hell...I feel like a friggin' fag for saying this,but I can't deny the truth of it.I'm grateful for having "met" ya's...

Thank You,All...

Paul




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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 09:02 AM


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Originally posted by REV.PAULIE
You guys are the best interweb fucks,ever...you just made me cry in a friggin' good way....

MetalMulisha - it's on in a few weeks!! Challenging you to another internerd throwdown,guy!!

Honestly,thank you all for being so fucking cool...Aside from my blood,and my brotherhood - you guys have become another family,to me...It don't matter if I never met some of you,or ever will...You've put up with my interweb excursions,called me out when you didn't agree,or just been cool as hell...I feel like a friggin' fag for saying this,but I can't deny the truth of it.I'm grateful for having "met" ya's...

Thank You,All...

Paul



We are a big ass family here Paulie, bout time you realized it!
Sure we disagree sometimes, and make fun of each other, get annoyed with each other, but when the chips are down, we really are there for each other, as much as anyone can be.

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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 09:10 AM


Donation made to The Lupus Foundation - in the name of Sandi-Marie Cacciatore.
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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 10:29 AM


^ word

BD check yer paypal emailz

Were a good bunch of goofs on here Paul for the most part...
and regardless of your colorful stage / web personality (which I have always dug anyway), most of us know you're a good dude, and in many ways you have probably connected with each of us personally through your music.
Stay strong for your family dude, cause they need ya. I was through similar situations earlier in the year, and I understand the emotional weight something like this puts on a man. In fact in many ways I'm still dealing with it.
You and yours are in my thoughts......
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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 11:34 AM


BD - U2U'd back
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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 01:18 PM


Quote:
Originally posted by REV.PAULIE
You guys are the best interweb fucks,ever...you just made me cry in a friggin' good way....

MetalMulisha - it's on in a few weeks!! Challenging you to another internerd throwdown,guy!!

Honestly,thank you all for being so fucking cool...Aside from my blood,and my brotherhood - you guys have become another family,to me...It don't matter if I never met some of you,or ever will...You've put up with my interweb excursions,called me out when you didn't agree,or just been cool as hell...I feel like a friggin' fag for saying this,but I can't deny the truth of it.I'm grateful for having "met" ya's...

Thank You,All...

Paul


hahaha any time brother, anytime.

But seriously all jokes aside, try and take some time for yourself and get through this. You fucking rule.

MM.

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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 03:01 PM


Paul, we love ya man. You have provided for us for years. This is a small way of giving back.

All The Best To You My Good Sir.
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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 05:54 PM


Quote:
Originally posted by REV.PAULIE
You guys are the best interweb fucks,ever...you just made me cry in a friggin' good way....

MetalMulisha - it's on in a few weeks!! Challenging you to another internerd throwdown,guy!!

Honestly,thank you all for being so fucking cool...Aside from my blood,and my brotherhood - you guys have become another family,to me...It don't matter if I never met some of you,or ever will...You've put up with my interweb excursions,called me out when you didn't agree,or just been cool as hell...I feel like a friggin' fag for saying this,but I can't deny the truth of it.I'm grateful for having "met" ya's...

Thank You,All...

Paul

oh cut it out Paulie, your gonna make me cry.

all the best to you and your family....try to keep your head up.




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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 07:29 PM


you fatheads selected a very tasteful basket of roses.
thanks to everyone that contributed.

paul, you and your family continue to be in our thoughts.






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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 08:29 PM


well done BD.
you are the man.
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[*] posted on 11-20-2009 at 08:42 PM


Missed the flowers, but I'll try to make a donation in the next few days. Won't be much, but it's something. Hope it helps.



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[*] posted on 11-21-2009 at 10:10 AM


I feel bad. Im too broke to eat so cant afford to donate. But thinkin bout ya Paul. Feel better chief.



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[*] posted on 11-21-2009 at 01:51 PM


Jesus, Paul. I'm sorry to hear about this.

It seems like the past 2 weeks have been nothing but bad news for people I know. This..... a guy at work killed himself..... a friend's father had a heart attack.... another friend's husband gets cancer. We should all count our blessings.




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[*] posted on 11-22-2009 at 12:40 PM


Sandi-Marie's obituary in the local paper:
http://www.silive.com/obituaries/index.ssf/2009/11/sandy_cac...





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[*] posted on 11-22-2009 at 12:45 PM


shit, wasn´t online the past days to contribute to the flowers, but will donate for sure.
paul, sorry for your loss. all the best for and your family.




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[*] posted on 11-23-2009 at 04:45 AM


On behalf of my Family.and my loudmouth self - I want to thank ALL OF YOU for showing such love and compassion,to me and mine in this hour of CHRISTALMIGHTYGIVEUSABREAKWILLYA?...

The flowers were BEAUTIFUL,and my Ma hasn't yet wrapped her head around who gave what,or why (not to say she didn't appreciate everything!),BUT,that's my Ma...If she's seeing ME happy doing what I do,that's all she needs...

My eldest nephew's girl started to have contractions towards the end of the wake,and they went to the hospital...Maybe an actual "rainbow" will shine over us for once!

We shall see...but,I don't have to see any more from any of you guys to know that you are my friends...

I love each and every one of you from the very depths of my bruised,battered,but never beaten,SOUL.

Be good to one another...like you always have been.

That's why I stayed around here...and,will remain.

- Paul




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