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Dating.....
what is everyones opinion on dating someone whom has children?
Its something that i've never really thought about before, but i'm sure that the older i get, (as i'm not getting any younger here) that it could come
up.
I myself, don't really want kids, i'm not really comfortable with the interaction with them... (except for with my little cousins)
So just throwing this out there, anyone ever dated someone who had/has kids? or has anyone here who has kids ever dated...
and for the record, [for my buddy's] i'm not dating nor looking right now, i'm kinda enjoying my time being single right now. But at some point, (who
the hell knows when) I will meet someone....
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I could never do it...walking, talking proof some other guy busted a nut in your woman. Damaged goods as far as I'm concerned, but thats just my
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Dave
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haha that is wicked... well i never thought of it that way before...
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I have no interest in ever having children so I couldn't date a woman with kids. Not a situation I want to be involved with.
‘Do you know what a love letter is? It’s a bullet from a fucking gun. Straight through your heart.’
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I dated a dude that had a baby. Being away from the kid killed him. He dumped me to get her back, and eventually it worked.
I also dated a dude that had 3 kids, only took care of one, and while we were together he found out he had an 11 year old in Louisiana. I could NEVER
get serious in that situation.
I personally want to get married someday and have a baby. Dosn't actually mean it's going to happen though.
If Mr Right came along and had a kid, I guess it all depends on the situation with the baby mama. If both have moved on, yet stay friends and he is
actually as good of a dad he can be,.... then I'd let him cook me dinner and take it slowly from there.
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I'm on the other side of this coin.
I have an 11 year old son, whom is a big part of my life. I have dated a few broads who came to discover they didn't want the competition for
attention / weren't mature enough for the situation. whatever. I moved on and found someone special who I've been with for over 2 years now ( long
time for me).
I've also dated chicks who also had kids, but these ones were kinda disasters with major drama still between the ex or just a stick up their asses who
wanted to mold me into whatever they didnt have before. Didn't happen.
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Shootingscars
I could never do it...walking, talking proof some other guy busted a nut in your woman. Damaged goods as far as I'm concerned, but thats just my
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so you only date virgins?
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A buddy of mine also refuses to go near a woman that has had a kid. The thought of it freaks him out.
A baby came out of where,.... ewwwwwww
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| Quote: | Originally posted by juandiablo
| Quote: | Originally posted by Shootingscars
I could never do it...walking, talking proof some other guy busted a nut in your woman. Damaged goods as far as I'm concerned, but thats just my
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so you only date virgins? |
Dated 1 virgin in 8th grade, but I was too.Virginity didn't last long. Never been with a girl that had a kid.....the thought of something bigger than
my fist squeezing out of her fuckhole turns me off.
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if it was the right person, i'd consider it. but as of now, nope.
not sure I would ever want to be a step father though. i never had much luck getting along with my stepmothers
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Shootingscars
| Quote: | Originally posted by juandiablo
| Quote: | Originally posted by Shootingscars
I could never do it...walking, talking proof some other guy busted a nut in your woman. Damaged goods as far as I'm concerned, but thats just my
opinion. |
so you only date virgins? |
Dated 1 virgin in 8th grade, but I was too.Virginity didn't last long. Never been with a girl that had a kid.....the thought of something bigger than
my fist squeezing out of her fuckhole turns me off. |
woa!
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Shootingscars
| Quote: | Originally posted by juandiablo
| Quote: | Originally posted by Shootingscars
I could never do it...walking, talking proof some other guy busted a nut in your woman. Damaged goods as far as I'm concerned, but thats just my
opinion. |
so you only date virgins? |
Dated 1 virgin in 8th grade, but I was too.Virginity didn't last long. Never been with a girl that had a kid.....the thought of something bigger than
my fist squeezing out of her fuckhole turns me off. |
hahahahaha!
I can't say I blame ya. The whole hole thing freaks me out just thinking about it. And I hear they snip ya between the girls 2 holes. yeah. FUCK THAT!
I think I'd rather they just cut open my stomach and rip the little sucka out.
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I thought about this before and I think I would be able to do handle it once I am ready to even have kids.
I guess I have a different perspective because the main father figure in my life was my step pop and he was a better dad than my biological donor. He
was actually my neighbor and my step brother was actually my best friend before our two families came together.
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^ that's a wild story.
good for you.
If I fail math, there goes my chance at a good job and a happy life full of hard work.
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I'd be reluctant just because I don't really feel mature/grounded enough right now to be a fixture in a kid's life.
On the other hand, for the right girl I could probably get past it and rise to the occasion.
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Dave
what is everyones opinion on dating someone whom has children?
Its something that i've never really thought about before, but i'm sure that the older i get, (as i'm not getting any younger here) that it could come
up.
I myself, don't really want kids, i'm not really comfortable with the interaction with them... (except for with my little cousins)
So just throwing this out there, anyone ever dated someone who had/has kids? or has anyone here who has kids ever dated...
and for the record, [for my buddy's] i'm not dating nor looking right now, i'm kinda enjoying my time being single right now. But at some point, (who
the hell knows when) I will meet someone.... |
No high fives.
No shorts.
No broads with kids.
No potato salad.
Those are my 4 rules in life.
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what you have against Potato Salad?
that shit am tasty!
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Dave
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| Quote: | Originally posted by juandiablo
what you have against Potato Salad?
that shit am tasty! |
i hate potato salad....love mashed potatoes tho.....
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i hate potato salad....love mashed potatoes tho..... |
same here
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Dude, shorts are awesome. Potato salad aint great.
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now here is another take...what about age difference?
now i've never dated anyone whom was older than i was.(eg: born the same year)
I've always thought that there was a buffer zone that everyone is comfortable with, mine would have to be, like maybe 3 years my senior, and 4-5 years
younger...what is your comfort zone on ages?
[Lionel your not allowed to comment on this question, because we all know that your range is whomever will buy you a drink at a bar]
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at 34 my age range is like 25-40 I guess.....
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hey-oooooo, Lionel!!!
dating a woman with a child? i dunno. at this point in my life, i think it would depend on when that fact came up. i think if i knew from the
beginning, i might not be too psyched. seems like a lot of potential baggage. but if i had spent some time developing a significant relationship
with the person, then it came out, i might be more vested in it. i wouldn't call it dating, but when i was like 20, i was kind of seeing someone that
had a kid. but she was super hot and the child lived with its grandmother. oddly, i was ok with the kid part...but i broke it off when she started
working at a strip club. i tried to rationalize it, but the first time i picked her up from work, i was like, 'this is fucked'. ha!
If I fail math, there goes my chance at a good job and a happy life full of hard work.
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Dave
now here is another take...what about age difference?
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when i was younger and dating, it ranged from three years older to three years younger.
if i were dating now, i think i'd be open to a wider range, but it depends on the person.
If I fail math, there goes my chance at a good job and a happy life full of hard work.
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| Quote: | Originally posted by juandiablo
at 34 my age range is like 25-40 I guess..... |
i think at 35 i'd have to go with 29-38.....
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